meet Stoa, yourAI relationship guide

Understand yourself. Connect with others.

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an outside perspective

Get the clarity that comes from someone who wasn’t there. No baggage, no assumptions, no taking sides - just helping you understand the full picture.

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grounded in relationship science

Stoa is built on a foundation of research from psychology and communication, helping you gain a clearer understanding of your relationships.

An ear listening to a person talking

your judgement-free sounding board

Talk through the messy, unfiltered, and confusing parts of your relationships. Sometimes you just need to get your thoughts off your chest.

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we're more connected yet more alone

Something's not working.

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hours spent on our phone daily

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1 in 30

adults have no close friends

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hours spent alone daily

Stoa will not be your friend

Dear world,

We know the irony:

an AI meant to help with loneliness could actually make it worse.

We don't think AI should replace our friends.

(and definitely not our partners!)

That's why we're building Stoa with guardrails:

  • We limit usage to 10 hours per month.
  • We nudge you to share what you're discussing with actual people.
  • We make it clear that Stoa is a guide, not a friend.
  • And we won't draft those hard texts for you.

This isn't just virtue signalling.

It's the entire point!

With hope,

the Stoa team

our philosophy for better relationships

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Two people watering a plant together
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step 1

it all starts with you

Stoa helps you understand yourself better and recognise your relationship patterns.

step 2

from 'me' to 'we'

With self-awareness comes clearer communication. Learn to express your needs, understand others better, and build new, healthier patterns.

step 3

touch all the grass

The goal isn't endless introspection—it's actually living. Get outside, make plans, and spend time with your people IRL.

for when relationships get complicated...

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Processing a friendship that's changed

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Feeling disconnected from your partner

Hands holding

Setting boundaries with family

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Dealing with a challenging manager

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